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An AM Conversation

5.31.2012

 Spring has been bordering on Summer.  We're loving it!

This morning Jed and I had a "conversation" that made me laugh.  Jed wandered into my room bright eyed and happy around 8:00AM.  (Yes, I'm a lazy pregnant mother.  I rarely get up before Jed does.)  Jed climbed onto the bed and when he didn't see Bron, he asked something in gibberish.

"Where is Daddy?"  I interpreted.
"Yeah," Jed said and nodded his head.
"Daddy's in the TV room working on his computer."
Pause.  "Bye! Bye!"
And Jed was off in a flash to find his dad.

Bron is obviously the cool person around here.  I don't mind.  I think he's pretty awesome too.

Jed's Cowboy Room

5.27.2012

Memorial Day weekend decided to grace us with clouds, wind, and rain.  So we gladly holed up inside the house and did inside things, like make homemade palmeni (a favorite Russian meal of Bron's), watch movies, and make delicious cream puff desserts.

Most importantly, however, I finished decorating Jed's bedroom!  It puts our master bedroom to shame.  In my non-biased opinion, I think it's perfect for a growing cowboy!  Take a look!


Isn't that the cutest little decorative window you've ever seen?  Those are real boots!  I think the handkerchiefs add a nice touch--and it's so simple.  We had already collected most of the decor, including the bedspread, so it all came together quickly and for a great price too.  Can't beat that!  I plan to add more to his room, but that will come with time.  (Notice: Most of Jed's toys are still in the other room because they're a distraction at nap time.)

And yes, Jed gets that big double bed all to himself!  He's been sleeping in his big boy room for weeks now.  I think he thoroughly enjoys the extra space!  He sleeps every which way--upside down and sideways.  I love checking in on him at night just to see his sweet face and laugh at what position he is in.  I also love hearing the door squeak followed by little pitter-patter footsteps in the morning.  The only problem is that sometimes those pitter-patters come at 1AM.

 I snuck in on Jed with my camera during his nap.  It was after 4PM and time to wake up!

 Jed looves his sleep!

    Stretching with a smile!  
He must've been ready to wake up because usually he's quite a crab.

In other news this weekend, Jed learned to say "please".  How could we deny him yet another cookie with such sweet pleas?  We have to encourage those kind of communication skills! 

Jed also got himself kicked out of nursery at church.  Bron and I couldn't help laughing.  The nursery leader was so sweet about it, but he was essentially a handful and a half!  Apparently, Jed wouldn't settle down for the lesson and kept the other boys wired and running laps around the room with him.  It looks like we've got a little trouble maker on our hands.  Jed is a two year old ball of energy that can make me frustrated and laugh all in the same minute.  We love this little boy!

Dandelions

5.24.2012

If each of these white wisps really are a ball of wishes,
then our yard is
MAGICAL!

Why must dandelions be a weed?  And why must we have so many?  They are a plague.

Happiness and Real Life Lately

5.21.2012

What put a smile on my face this past week:

 Jed copying his dad.
Bron likes to relax with his hands behind his head.  Jed does too.

::  An evening with my friend, Kristen, and her baby girl.  We chatted and ate and planned to do some really cool projects together.  Fun!

::  Dancing to the radio with Jed.  Jed smiled and laughed and put his head on my shoulder.  Precious moments.

::  How Jed sounds like he was born in London.  "'Elloo," he says over and over.

::  Jed's run.  Now that he's out of a cast, Jed's leg is healing up well.  Jed runs everywhere!  And he runs with a little hop in his step.  Love it.

::  Hot meat from the grill and summer salads.  I love summer food.

::  Sunshine and warm weather.

::  Me: "Jed, what does Mom say?"  
    Jed: "'Elloo!"

 ::  Meeting friends (old and new) around a fire ring at the park and roasting giant marshmallows and starbursts.

 ::  How all the kids in the neighborhood ride around on bikes and golf carts.  Sweet.

 ::  Playing with Jed at the park.  He's fearless on the giant slides, but gets nervous when I push him too high on the swing.  That's when he sat in my lap and we happily swung together.

::  Bron bought me a brand new pan that doesn't stick and sits flat on my stove top.  Hallelujah!

::  Finally put up the window treatments in Jed's room.  They look great!

::  The look on Jed's face as I handed him an ice cream cone.

::  A much needed late night conversation with my hubby.

::  Friends who came over and made us a delicious authentic Italian meal followed by a rousing game of Settlers.

::  Me: "Jed, do you want to be potty trained?"
Jed: "Oooo!  Oooo!"  (train sound)
Oh, the simple mind!  Haha  I don't think we'll be attempting potty training any time soon.

 Drinking out of the hose.  Notice how Jed is drenching himself at the same time!

*****

As great as this past week was, it was also a looong week.  You know that old adage, "You can either have nice things or children, not both?"  Well, apparently it applies to dogs as well.

Tyke is technically still a puppy.  He likes to chew and dig and make messes.  Sometimes I want to throttle that dog!  He dug up all of my tulip bulbs, ate all of my roses, destroyed my drip system, and chewed through the wires that run our sprinkler system.  Needless to say, the dog has been banned from my courtyard.  Luckily, no permanent damage has been done and Bron is a stud for fixing what can be fixed.

Also, the terrible-two's have hit us with hurricane force.  Jed has suddenly decided that whining is his primary form of communication.  He also chooses to ignore us when we tell him, "No" or "Stop."  His disobedience has caused him lots of time with his nose on the wall or time-outs in his room.  These new behaviors make parenting lots of work!  (I know our own parents are snickering right now.)  This summer's goals?  Working on COMMUNICATION and LISTENING.  It's going to take lots of time and consistency and most of all, patience.  A part of me thinks that no matter how much effort I put into helping and training my child, these behaviors are just something that he'll grow out of.  Am I right?  I don't know, but I have to do something to maintain my sanity!  Maybe the dog will outgrow his chewing habits too?

It's a good thing that Jed is still so innocent and cute.  I'll love him till the world ends.  As for the dog?  Well, he's procured his station here because he is uncommonly good with Jed.  He takes anything that little boy can dish out.  They're buddies.  And... I guess I kind of like the dog too.

 Running with trucks!

Hellooo Third Trimester

5.17.2012

I have officially made it to the last stretch--and definitely the biggest stretch, for my belly at least--of pregnancy!  In just three {uncomfortable} months I'll be kissing the cheeks of the precious baby who is currently bumping around in my stomach. 
I'm getting excited to meet our little man and to have a baby in the house again.
I'm also getting a little nervous about juggling two little ones.  
This baby is going to rock my world, but in a good way.


P.S.  Here's a little picture of Jed to make your day.  It sure makes mine.

Orange County: Part 2

5.15.2012

{Click here to view Part 1}

Monday May 7: 

What's a trip to southern California without a day at the beach?  To me, nothing makes a day more perfect than sun, sand, and salty waves.  (Even if I'm so pregnant that I look like a beached whale.)


A little family lovin'.  
What kind of cheek squeezing will we do when baby #2 arrives?

 Note:  Aren't those picture of my sister with her baby boy adorable?  They make me happy looking at them!

Tuesday May 8: 

On our last day there we toured the Queen Mary, a famous cruise ship that was used as a transport ship during WWII.  It's now a museum and hotel.  One of my favorite parts about a ship is the engine room, even though I have no idea how it works.  It's just massive!


Jed at the helm

Next, we toured the Russian submarine, The Scorpion.  I could never ever live on a submarine; quarters are tight!

 Coming up out of the submarine!

 Jed really liked the look of a Russian Captain's hat.

We finished our afternoon with drive-thru burgers and fries at In-n-Out while Jed snoozed in the back seat.  Then we headed down Pacific Coast Highway and spent some time at Huntington Beach perusing through the swap meet shops and putting our toes in the sand.


Amid all our activities that week, we hung out a lot at the townhouse too.  We ate and talked and watched movies and talked some more.  It was a great combination of busy and relaxing.  We love you, California!  Even better, we love you, family!!!  We can't wait to come back.  Thank you!

Happy Mother's Day

5.13.2012



This morning, Bron and I cuddled in bed while Jed happily played.  Suddenly, we heard the toilet lid slam shut followed by a loud flush.  I started to laugh; so much for a peaceful morning!  The next thing I knew Jed was climbing into bed with me icy cold and sopping wet.

If that's not what being a mother is all about, I don't know what is!

Being a mother is the greatest gift of my life.  Motherhood isn't all roses, but I've never experienced so much love and so much joy.  There is no sweeter sound than to hear my little boy say, "Mama" or watch him blow me a tender kiss as I put him to sleep each night.  I live and breathe for my child.  I feel privileged and blessed to be Jed's mother... and soon to be the mother of another baby boy.  What a beautiful life I have. 


For Mother's Day this year, Bron spoiled me by taking me to a nursery and letting me go hog wild.  He chased and tamed the little man while I filled a giant green wagon full of little plants: flowers, tomatoes, peppers, cilantro and parsley, and strawberries.  To top it off, Bron bought me three rose bushes!  They're drop dead beautiful.

We came home and planted it all.  I now have pots overflowing with colorful flowers, a small garden ready for salsa making, future sweet strawberries galore, and a courtyard now complete with three amazing rose bushes.  All these beautiful growing things make me so happy!  (Now cross your fingers to keep a freak freeze away and to keep me from drowning it all with too much water.)

Saturday night, Bron took me on a much needed date.  It's so nice to have Bron all to myself for a few hours away from the house.  We saw the Avengers (totally worth seeing in the theater!) and rounded off the night with appetizers at Chili's.  Ahh, the perks of not being students anymore.  I love my man.  He takes such good care of me. 

So Happy Mother's Day to all you mothers, motherly figures, and future mothers!  And a special thank you to my very own mother, mother-in-law, and grandmothers whom I admire very much!  I hope your weekend was as special as mine.

Orange County: Part 1

5.11.2012

We love to travel and explore and make fun memories in new places.  However, it's especially meaningful to travel to see family and make fun memories!

At just two years old, Jed is a traveling maniac.  He's been all over the Northeast (Quebec, PA, & D.C.) and a good part of the great West as well (San Diego, AZ, & Zion's).  I've completely lost count of how many planes Jed has ridden on.  I'm grateful our trip from Salt Lake City to Long Beach was only two hours though; this was the roughest vacation we've been on with Jed.  The problem wasn't really with Jed himself; it's the age.  Two year-olds are exhausting!  It was so much easier to travel when he was a baby and couldn't run or express much of an opinion.  

Anyhow, after a sleepless night at a hotel in Salt Lake City (Jed decided to come play with us from 2 to 4AM), we arrived Friday morning with much excitement in Long Beach, CA.  We'd been looking forward to this trip for months!  My dad and sister were there to greet us along with my nephew, Carter, and little stepsister, Mia.

Friday May 4:

First order of adventure: The Aquarium of the Pacific.

It's a relatively small aquarium, but there seemed to be a thousand different fish and little exhibits.  The best part?  It was very hands-on!  We got to stick our hands (excuse me, two fingers) in the water to touch jelly fish, sharks, and sting rays.  So much fun!  I loved seeing the look of awe and confusion on Jed's face as he saw sea creatures for the first time.  Jed's favorite attraction were the seals and sea lions.

Playing in the water.  

The aquarium can't be mentioned without our little excursion through the bird exhibit!  My dad and this little bird became fast buddies.


The best part of our first day there happened around midnight when my brother, Joe, showed up!  My brother is stationed with the Navy in Italy.  He hadn't set foot on American soil for nearly three years, which means we hadn't seen him for that long either.  It was the best surprise!!!  Our stepmom, Liz, had been planning Joe's trip in secret for months.  And it was so worth it!  It's getting harder to get us three siblings together with my dad, so seeing Joe was the icing on the cake this trip.  It meant a lot to everyone.  

My handsome bro, Joe.

Joey has become very passionate about politics and economics.  We spent many hours talking and debating.  Sometimes it was hard to get a word in edgewise!  But still, it was good times.

Saturday May 5:

Cinco de Mayo just happens to be Bron and my anniversary.  Partay day!  We just celebrated five years of marriage together!

May fifth was also the day that my dad and his wife Liz decided to exchange vows.  The two eloped a little over a year ago last March.  It was time to publicly express that love and throw a little party!  I'm really happy my dad is happy and that he has Liz to grow old with.  It's so obvious how much she adores my dad.  Her love for the people she loves knows no bounds.  Plus, she has this crazy, fun, outgoing personality that makes her easy to like.   

Mr. and Mrs. Wade

Sunday May 6:

The day of the OC Half Marathon.

While I slept in to take care of the babies (remember I'm six months prego), the rest of the family was up before the crack of dawn to run the OC Half Marathon.  What can I say other than I am impressed?  My dad ran it despite some health setbacks and earned his Beach Cities medal.  Liz is a die hard runner who started it all.  Bron made his goal time of 2 hours and 14 minutes.  My sister Lauren proved to herself that she pretty much rocks.  And my brother Joe beat the socks off of everyone--without training a day--with a time of 1 hour and 53 minutes.

I'm a little jealous everyone got to run but me!  I miss running so very much.  My time will come though. 

My dad with his grandsons, Jed and Carter.
It is believed that Jed has my eyes which are his grandpa's eyes.

Stay tuned for more pictures and adventures...

California Preview

5.10.2012


We just spent five fun days with family in sunny southern California.  My brother even flew in from Italy as a giant surprise for my dad!  The weekend included celebrating marriage vows, running a half marathon (not me, of course), playing at the beach, eating too much food, and talking for hours.  It is definitely a weekend to be remembered.  I'm happy we're already planning our next trip back!

Thank you, Liz, for planning it all to the last detail.  We love you all!

Happy 5th Anniversary

5.05.2012

As of today, Bron and I have been married five whole years.  
We've had many adventures and un-adventures these past years, but 
I am proud to say that I am HAPPILY married!


Maybe I'm so happy because Bron is my best friend and we can talk about anything for hours

Maybe I'm so happy because Bron kisses me and whispers "I love you" in my ear every morning on his way out the door

Maybe I'm so happy because Bron worked and continues to work towards any goal he sets for himself.
He's a determined, smart, and talented man.  (And did I mention handsome?)

Maybe I'm so happy because Bron lets me hold his hand in the car

Maybe I'm so happy because Bron is willing to listen to me when I've had a bad day.  Then he laughs and it makes me laugh.

Maybe I'm so happy because Bron makes time to play with Jed and shows him how to work in the yard

 Maybe I'm so happy because Bron graciously puts up with my craziness.  "I did it that way because I felt like it."  The logical thing to do would have been completely opposite.

Maybe I'm so happy because Bron can teach Jed to make car noises and animal sounds and I really can't 

Maybe I'm so happy because Bron likes to tickle me, tease me, and make me laugh

Maybe I'm so happy because I have a travel and adventure partner with whom to conquer the world

Maybe I'm so happy because Bron grills meat like a professional chef and I just put together the side dishes.  We can make a delicious meal!

Maybe I'm so happy because Bron selflessly puts his family first and him second.
In other words, I am spoiled!

Maybe I'm so happy because Bron likes to go on walks, bike rides, and hikes with me

Maybe I'm so happy because Bron can do handy-man things and fix what needs fixin' around the house

 Maybe I'm so happy because Bron encourages and supports me in everything I do or want to try to do

 Maybe I'm so happy because Bron and I are building a home and family together with lots of dreams for the future

Maybe I'm so happy because the man I love is mine forever


xoxo  I love you, Bron!  You truly do make me a happy woman.  xoxo

25 Weeks

5.02.2012

 I found a new pregnancy favorite: maxi dresses!

Can I tell you a secret?

A part of me can't wait for this pregnancy to be over.  I'm grateful that no one ever said I need to have X number of children because frankly, I don't think I could handle ballooning up every other year for the next ten years.  I'm just not myself when I'm pregnant.  I miss me.  Bron misses me.

Want to know the second piece of my secret?

The other part of me secretly loves being pregnant!  It's all about that round belly!  I love feeling our little miracle bumping around in my stomach.  I love the anticipation of bringing a new life into our family!  It's exciting and special and sometimes even spiritual.

*****

As my family grows, I reflect more and more on the purpose of family. This quote by Bernadine Healy often comes to mind: 

"As a physician, who has been deeply privileged to share the most profound moments of people’s lives including their final moments, let me tell you a secret. People facing death don’t think about what degrees they have earned, what positions they have held, or how much wealth they have accumulated. At the end, what really matters is who you loved and who loved you. That circle of love is everything, and is a great measure of a past life. It is the gift of greatest worth."

More than anything, I want to be the best wife and mother I can possibly be because in the big scheme of things, family is all that really matters.  My boys mean the world to me.  I cherish every smile, every laugh, every hug, every kiss, and every wonderful-awful thing in between.  

So baby boy, yes, you are worth every single day of uncomfortable pregnancy!  

Is it just me, or is this pregnancy making me sentimental and weepy?

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