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Monthly Photography Challenge: Bokeh

12.15.2014

This month's photography challenge is bokeh.  (If you're new to the blog, you can see previous challenges HERE.)  With the Christmas season upon us and little lights glowing everywhere, it only seemed a natural theme.  Those gleaming lights look so pretty, all blurry and out of focus, in the background!  So I decided to try to light up the background for my darling neighbor girl's one year old birthday shoot here in my home.  I learned a few things.  One point in particular is how I desperately need a stand to hang my backgrounds on!  Lucky me, Bron designed something and took me to the hardware store that very night for some PVC pipe.  I am beyond thrilled!  But really, no set-back can underrate this little girl's contagious smile.  Paisley is so cute I just want to sweep her up and squeeze her!


Thanks for peeking in!  Don't forget to check out the other talented ladies in our photography circle, beginning with Lauren Jensen Photography.

The Rock Creek Station Lights

12.10.2014


Family life seems to have a specific cycle: These people I love fill me up.  Drain me.  Repeat.

On Monday night Bron and I were feeling particularly drained and defeated by two little boys, but we loaded up into the car to go see the lights as promised anyway.  And I am so glad we did!  We were immediately filled to the brim again.

The colorful lights at Rock Creek Station are always one of my favorite Christmas season activities.  The trunks are wrapped from top to bottom.  There are a myriad of characters all lit up that the boys enjoy pointing and gawking at.  There are even bacon lights strung on a bush!  Totally cool.  We simply enjoyed the relatively warm uncrowded evening holding hands and wandering happily around together as a family of four.  Thanks for filling my tank, boys!

 ^^The bacon branches.  So random.  I love it!^^

Seven Things That Made Me Happy This Weekend

12.08.2014

^^This picture makes me happy!  So what if my tree is a little big and over the top?  It's my dream come true tree.  I'm determined to soak in this truly special time with two innocent (and excited!) little boys under our roof this season.  They make it so easy to feel that special Christmas spirit.  ^^

In the spirit of counting my blessings and accentuating the positive this season, seven things that made me happy this weekend were: 

1. The way Levi gallops sideways across the house.  He says he's skateboarding.

2. Taking advantage of this unseasonably warm weather to play at the park on Friday afternoon with both my little boys!  Is it December or is it April?  I'm loving this sunshine.

3. I may be a little late getting on the chore train, but I'm learning that if my boys aren't doing something constructive, they're probably being destructive.  I think it's partly the age and partly the change to colder weather.  On Saturday afternoon, Jed and Levi helped me rake up the yard.  (Bron fit in a bike ride!  Yes, it was that nice.)  The yard certainly doesn't look amazing, but it's sure better than when we started.  Plus, Jed feels a sense of pride and accomplishment and I absolutely love that!  Here's to instilling a little work ethic into my sons.      

4. Going out to dinner with all three of my handsome boys on Saturday evening.  We hit up the Mongolian Grill--a little restaurant where we filled our bowls with all the vegetables, meat, and noodles we could muster, added some sauce, and watched a couple of men cook it up right in front of our eyes.  Jed and Levi thought it was pretty neat.  But the ice cream afterwards was even neater.

5. The excitement in Jed's voice as he proudly declared, "I did it, Mom!  I did it, Dad!"  Jed can pronounce the 's' sound but has a hard time using the sound within a word when he speaks.  We were practicing words like Santa, Steam, and Smoke on our drive home from town... and he did it!  Both Bron and I are so happy for him.  I didn't realize until that moment that Jed is acutely aware that he cannot say those kinds of things with ease.  We try not to make a big deal of it, but I think the help from the speech therapist in preschool is making him think about it.  I'm so proud of our big little guy.

6. Sharing a delicious roast, vegetables, and chocolate fudge on Sunday evening with friends.

7. There's nothing quite like hearing a four year old exclaim, "That was awesome!"  It was so cute.  Jed was referring to the brightly lit festive neighborhood we visited out in Filer Saturday evening.

Cheers to the best season of the year!

and just for fun...
^^what my tree looks like on a 2.5 second exposure while I do a little dance.  Ha!^^

A Very Nelson Thanksgiving

12.03.2014


Jed was so excited to go to Grandma's house for Thanksgiving that he had his bag packed--with two pairs of pants, three shirts, three pairs of underwear, socks, a night light, his bear, and a blanket (not too shabby, little man!)--by 9AM Wednesday morning.  I had a hard time telling him he'd have to wait until I finished baking some pies and Daddy came home from work! 

Speaking of pies, I made three: an apple, a pumpkin, and a berry pie.  The berry pie didn't even make it to Thanksgiving morning.  It was perfectly delicious!  However, I forgot to mix in the sugar with my pumpkin pie.  So sad!  Pie fail.  Oh well.  Two out of three ain't bad.  And a little added sugar on top goes a long way.

This year, Thanksgiving was everything I'd hoped it would be.  (Thanks to all your preparation, Momma Nelson!)  I love getting together with family to carry out traditions we do year after year.  And though we often add on something completely different each year as well, the feelings of love and warmth mixed with delicious food, good company, and a little bit heaping spoonful of chaos are what make Thanksgiving on the Nelson Dairy so memorable.

We ate ham in addition to turkey this year.  Best. Decision. Ever.  The boys played a game of football in the backyard.  The men finally finished constructing the interior of the pool room.  The women shopped till we dropped on Black Friday.  (I love that my Christmas shopping is 95% done!)  The entire family met for some raucous games of bowling and pizza on Friday afternoon.  We all gabbed and played board games till bedtime.  And the grandkids opened brand new Christmas jammies from Grandma.  It was all so fun!

I even snagged the opportunity for some quiet reflection on my mile long walk to the mail box and back (for the Black Friday sale ads, of course!).  My heart has felt a little achy these last months--every time a friend announces her pregnancy it's like a kick in the gut--as a third baby for our family seems to elude us.  It's been nearly a year.  I don't know why it seems we can't get pregnant again, but I'm trying to trust that God knows the big picture and He knows best.  I haven't lost hope though.  As I said a silent prayer and counted my blessings that day, I couldn't help but feel overwhelmed.  My Heavenly Father loves me.  I have been blessed with so very much!  It's all going to be okay; no matter what happens. 

It was truly a Happy Thanksgiving.        

^^Notice Jed's dirt fence for his army guy.  I love his imagination.^^
^^Levi's first football touchdown and kick on Thanksgiving day.  He's so cute I could just gobble him up!^^
^^And then the disappointment when it wasn't his turn to handle the ball.^^
^^Luckily, some frozen raspberries picked up his broken spirit lickety split.^^
 ^^What this corner of the house often looked like.  Bron's brother has nine children.  We have two.  That makes a total of eleven miniature crazies ruling the roost and playing with all of Grandma's cool old school toys.^^
 ^^Thanksgiving feast prep!  I love a man, especially that man, in the kitchen.^^
 ^^Oh, hey!  There's me!^^
^^Dishing up!^^
 ^^Chowing down at the kids' table^^
^^Kids in cozy Christmas jammies.  I have a feeling there are going to be a lot of these kinds of pictures on the stairs throughout the years.^^

Christmas Cash Giveaway!

12.02.2014

This is a first here on this little 'ol blog of mine, a group giveaway!  We ladies are all coming together to give one lucky winner a $250 dollar visa gift card just in time for Christmas.  I secretly hope fate steps in and selects a gal who's had a rough year and really deserves this!  So scroll on down to the rafflecopter to enter and follow along with some of these neat bloggers.  Fingers crossed!    



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Dear Boys, My Sanity is Waning

12.01.2014


Dear Boys,

Can we pleeaase, I beg of you, go five consecutive minutes without any fighting or screaming or whining?  Five minutes without water dumped on the floor, crayon on the walls, or random items clogging the toilet?  Can I please brush my hair or put on some make-up without someone (ahem, Levi) pooping in the corner of the closet?  Can I cook dinner without someone hanging on the curtains till the screws holding the rod come loose?  Can I just sit in peace for a few minutes without being needed... please?!

Tonight I heard a sharp scream followed by crying.  I scrambled to the bathroom to investigate.  I saw the light socket cover sitting on the ground next to the night light as Jed hurriedly explained how Levi fell off the back of the toilet.

"What hurts, Levi?" I asked.
"My finger," he sobbed in reply.

I laughed out loud and scooped him into a hug.  "You totally deserved that," I said through a smile.  "You got electrocuted when you played with the socket in the wall."

Boys, tell me, what am I doing wrong as a mother?  These last few weeks have been rough!  You are wringing out every last ounce of patience and sanity I have left in my body and soul.  I literally cannot get anything done unless you are watching tv or sleeping.  You know what good behavior is--you know what I expect of you--so why are you doing exactly opposite?

But maybe that's just it.  Perhaps you're just trying to be helpful?

Maybe it's not too much of a long shot to assume that you're trying to anticipate what I'd like you to do but simply do everything wrong instead.  You two are such good boys by nature.  I think I see it now.

Jed, you wanted to decorate your room for Christmas, so you swiped your favorite ornament from the tree and colored your wall green.  You wanted to brush your teeth all by yourself but wound up with a sink full of toothpaste instead.  And Levi, you wanted to help me clean the bathroom but dumped half the can of powdered comet out on the floor while my back was turned.

All this helpfulness (aka messes!) that I just don't appreciate.

I'm sorry, boys.  I'm sorry I haven't seen it from your point of view... till now.  I need to be kinder.  I need to slow down; breath before I react.  Someday you will have the skills to be truly helpful, but until then I should just appreciate the perfect innocent balls of energy that you are now because this phase certainly has its perks too--like sloppy kisses, feeling tiny hands in mine, silly jokes and songs, lullabyes and snuggles on the couch.

This phase sure is hard, but it's a good one too.  I'll try to remember that next time the toilet overflows.  Just remember that I love you, no matter what.

Love Always,
Mom

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