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A Day in the Life 2015

5.14.2015

Welcome to the third annual "A Day in the Life of the Nelsons" post!  I've done one each May three years in a row now and I have to admit, those past posts are some of my personal all-time favorites.  I really enjoy going back and seeing how much the boys have grown and how much our routine has changed.  So sit back, prepare to laugh a little, and take a peek at what Tuesday May 12th looked like for our family.  And although I realize Jed does only need a well check-up once a year, I feel like at least a third of my mornings are on the go these days.  So this day was as good as any to pick!

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5:15AM:  Bron gently kisses me goodbye on the cheek and whispers, "I love you," as I lay sleeping in bed.  He is headed to Montana to visit dairies.  It's an overnight trip he takes every month.

7:25AM:  Jed comes to my bedside chipper and completely dressed for the day!  He never does that; he is just super excited for his doctor's appointment.  If only he knew that he would probably cry when the nurse poked him with a few needles, I don't think he would be so eager.  He tells me 'good morning Mom!' and asks me to make him breakfast, so I roll myself out of bed. 

Levi groggily stumbles into the kitchen.  I sweep him up into my arms for a long hug while Jed impatiently tells me he needs milk.  Both boys want to sit at the bar for breakfast this morning.  I pour them some cereal (they prefer it dry), fill Jed's cup with milk and Levi's with water (Levi will only drink chocolate milk), give them each a handful of grapes and a vitamin.  Voila!  Breakfast is served.  We read a whopping five verses of scripture together.  I figure a little bit is better than nothing at all!


After breakfast, I start a load of laundry and hop on Instagram to embarrass wish my sister a happy birthday.  Then I start making a picnic lunch.  On the menu: ham and cheese sandwiches, a peanut butter and jelly sandwich for Jed (by request), yogurt, pretzels, grapes, carrot sticks, and an apple just for me.  Then I help Levi get dressed and turn on some cartoons for the boys while I hop in the shower to get ready for the day.

Side Note: I normally incorporate some kind of an exercise routine into my day (most days), but it's been rough this last month trying to get back into the routine after my miscarriage.  My body just can't handle it.  I am zapped of energy!  Slowly but surely, however, I'll make it back.


9:08AM:  Time to hop in the car to make it to Jed's doctor appointment at 9:40AM.  On the way out the door, my neighbor Tiana calls.  She's in a pickle.  Her husband was called into work and she needs a babysitter that evening.  I totally understand!  I tell her I can watch her kids, that Bron is gone tonight too and having some friends over will help pass the time.  Unfortunately, amidst all the commotion, I forget to tell Jed to grab his backpack.  Oh well. 

At the doctor's office we find out that Jed is tall (no surprise), and though he's a goofy kid, he is as healthy as can be.  What a blessing!  I don't have any concerns about Jed keeping up with his peers in kindergarten this Fall.  After being thoroughly checked over and questioned, Jed rolls up his pant legs for his immunization shots.  Oh, his tears bring tears to my eyes!  But the nurse is super quick and makes sure he has some cool band aids.  Jed is over it in less than two minutes.  That's my brave boy! 
 
^^The boys stuck their heads into the hall, anxiously waiting to see the doctor.^^

10:50AM:  Time for a picnic lunch at the park!  I'd heard rumors about this awesome brand new park just built on the west side of town, so we went to check it out while we were over there.  The rumors did not disappoint!  It was busy with people, but understandably so because it is amazing: AstroTurf underfoot, crazy geometrical designs, tall slides, and toys that spin and slide and move.  I couldn't wait to play with the kids!  Needless to say, the three of us ate the majority of our lunch on the ride back home.  Ha! 

^^Riding on the fast track^^
^^Spinning till they fell off the seats!^^
^^King of the boulder.  Levi's champ stance cracks me up!^^

11:44AM:  Time to get back in the car to get Jed to preschool.  But first, we stop by the bank so I can cash a bunch of checks for my little (but steadily growing!) photography business.  At the school, we park and walk Jed into his classroom.  Levi loves using the pint-sized urinal, so we take another potty break.  Our life revolves closely around the potty these days.  Then I turn in Jed's updated immunization record to the school's office for kindergarten.

^^Levi became the big kids' hero when he saved their ball from the parking lot.^^

1:00PM:  Home again.  Levi (aka The Bottomless Pit) insists on eating.  So while he eats his snack, I switch the laundry and start another load, straighten up the kitchen a bit, and manage a few other odds and ends.

Finally, Levi and I snuggle up on his bed to read a story.  Today's pick: The Ox Cart Man; it's one of his favorites.  Then I tuck Levi into bed for a nap.

At last, quiet time for me!  I sit on the couch and scroll through Instagram and Facebook for a half hour like a drone.  It's so mind numbing, it feels good.  Then I pick myself up to tackle the laundry.  I fold three loads.  Feeling a sense of accomplishment, I gather all of my supplies to finish putting together the preschool graduation picture order. 


3:55PM:  Time to pick up Jed from the bus!  Since Levi is still zonked out, I head out by myself to the corner.  A rain storm is coming in.  The thing about Idaho storms is that they often disappear as fast as they come in.  In other words, if you don't like the weather, wait ten minutes.  Luckily, Jed and I make it back to the house just as it starts to rain. 

^^One of my favorite moments of the day: getting to hold Jed's hand all the way home.  I really do cherish this sweet time with him!^^

4:10PM:  The witching hour.  I wake Levi up from his nap and the three of us sit down at the table for an afternoon snack.  Then it's time for guitar practice!  Jed happily makes up a a silly song for me, but it's like pulling teeth getting him to concentrate for ten minutes.  Levi complains that he's cold, so I wrap him up like a burrito in a blanket.  Jed says he's cold too, so I wrap him up as well.  Levi sits on Jed.  Jed laughs... until Levi won't get off.  Then Levi grabs the tricycle and rides around the house.  It's kind of a crazy hour. 

^^Toga tricycle riding!^^

5:03PM:  I kick the kids outside so that I can make dinner.  The boys are used to eating pancakes for dinner when Bron is out of town (they love it and have come to expect it!), so I whip up some waffles.  Jed prefers to eat his waffles with peanut butter.  Levi always choose syrup or jam.  I've been trying (operative word is try here) to eat healthier, so I cook up a chicken breast and some asparagus sprinkled with parmesan cheese (my favorite way to eat asparagus!) for me.  I couldn't help adding a waffle to my plate as well.  Weird combination, I know, but that sweet maple syrup hit the spot!

In the meantime, the boys were busy getting wet in the hose outside.  Wardrobe change!  After dinner, I remind Jed that he needs to do his chore and feed the dog. 


5:50PM: I leave the kitchen a mess and head outside with Jed and Levi to meet our three neighbor friends I agreed to babysit.  They live directly across the street, so we all grabbed our bikes.  The kids spent a solid hour racing their bikes up and down the cul-de-sac and around the Egbert's smooth asphalt driveway.  I even put my camera down and joined the kids on my bike!  Good times. 

^^Kyle and Levi: two cute little mischief makers in a pod.^^
^^Sometimes I just cannot convince Levi to wear a shirt.^^
^^Apparently Jed got tired of being the slowest kid on the block on that tiny tricycle and upgraded to his big bike.  Haha!^^

6:48PM:  Everyone, especially Jed, seems to be getting tired so we park the bikes in the garage and head into the house.  I turn on some cartoons and let the kids relax while I clean up the kitchen and fold two more batches of laundry.  By that time, Kyle and Levi are getting restless, so I turn off the tv and everyone comes out into the living room to play.  Somehow, Kyle and Levi make it outside again to play in the sprinklers.  About 7:30, Kyle complains that he's hungry.  Apparently, the three never ate dinner!  So I whip up some waffles from the leftover batter.  Levi wants another waffle too.  The kids sit down to eat just as someone shows up to take them home again.   

^^Real life living room: kids, lots of toys, and laundry.  Strangely, this picture makes me happy.  It's like it's a reminder that I'm doing okay in this busy crazy stage of life I'm in.  There's actually some beauty here.  Can you see it too?^^

8:10PM:  Normally the boys clean up their toys at the end of the day, but I just didn't have the energy and I could tell Jed didn't either.  Between a busy day and shots, he was beat!  So we commenced our normal bedtime routine: jammies, teeth, prayer, story, and a lullaby. I always sit on their toy box to sing.  Each time I summon the last of my energy for bedtime, I remind myself that I'll miss the stories and songs one day.


8:32PM:  Yay!  The kids are in bed.  The house is quiet.  Time for me to do one of my all time favorite things: edit pictures!  So my tired body stupidly sat up till midnight reading blogs and editing pictures.  Bliss!

And that, folks, is a good day!

Highlights of Mother's Day Weekend

5.11.2015

This Mother's Day, like every six I've celebrated in years past, was celebrated simply.  But I think this year was my favorite yet because one little boy is starting to grasp what this holiday is all about.  Jed came home from school this week with a couple of sweet surprises that he couldn't wait to share with me: a planted flower wrapped in blue tissue paper and a card with his face and name on it.  Bron helped the boys hang pretty flowers in the courtyard and hide my favorite candy bar in the freezer.  (I gladly shared my chocolate with those eager faces!)  The boys were mostly cooperative and happy all weekend long.  I was showered with cuddles and kisses.  However, what tops it all for me was hearing genuine wishes for a happy mother's day added into their bedtime routine.

Each night I turn out the light, blow some kisses, and whisper, "Good night.  Sleep tight.  I love you!"  This week Jed and Levi both responded, "Good night.  Sleep tight.  Merry Christmas.  Happy Mother's Day!"  It made me smile and laugh every time.  Oh, sweet boys.  If only you could stay this small and innocent forever!  You make me strive to be a better mother--a better person--everyday.  Please forgive me of my shortcomings because I am so happy I get to be your mama.  You don't know it, but you are my entire world.



Highlights Of Mother's Day Weekend:

::  Friday Nacho y Nacho night with friends.  Meaning, we ate decked out nachos with all the trimmings and watched Nacho Libre... and some Jimmy Fallon shorts.  We laughed so much!  And the kids got to play with their little friends till 10:30PM.  Yeah, parents of the year award!  But so fun and so worth it.

::  We took the boys out on their very first "mountain bike ride".  There are some easy trails--some made especially for kids--down in Auger Falls.  Levi took to the trails like a fish to water.  Jed, however, is still acclimating to his new big kid two wheeler.  He was a bit nervous!  Luckily, there's a handle on the back of his seat so Bron and I were able to take turns running around with him.  Our mountain bike riding trip was short-lived, but I'd say it was a success.  Everyone left feeling encouraged and happy and that's what matters most.  Jed and Levi were so proud of themselves!  (Haha.)

::  While doing some quick shopping at Fred Meyer, Levi asked me to buckle him into the cart.  "I under arrest!" he quipped.  "Help me out of jail!"  I told him payment was five kisses on my cheek.  He gladly obliged.  One.  Two.  Three.  Four... "Mommy, there's a buger on your cheek!" Levi laughed.  Eeew.  I guess someone wasn't getting out of jail after all!  I couldn't help laughing myself.  It's playful moments like that between my boys and me that make me happiest.  

::  Watching Jed proudly sing the primary's Mother's Day song in Sacrament meeting at church.  Oh, be still my heart!

::  After a delicious steak and potato Mother's Day lunch and naps, our entire family headed outside to play.  We went on a walk to "the bridge" and stuck our feet in the cold water.  Then we raced bikes around the cul-de-sac at home.  And finally, instead of dinner, we ate s'mores followed by popcorn and a movie where both little boys curled up in my lap.  I could just squeeze those kids, I love them so much!  It was perfect.

  ^^Can't get enough of that dirty little bum!^^

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I hope all you amazing mothers out there had a wonderful day!  I feel lucky to be surrounded by so many loving and talented women.  I'm glad I get to grow and learn alongside you on this crazy fun journey.          

The Insane Inflatable 5K Race

5.07.2015

^^Our Insane Inflatable 5K Conquering Crew: Aaron, Amy, Me, and Bron^^

Last weekend we headed to Boise with some friends to participate in what was aptly named, The Insane Inflatable 5K Race.  Think adult-sized bounce house obstacles with a bit of running in between.  It was a blast!  Sooo much fun.  And nobody in our group fell flat on their faces.  Yay!  (Although the guys did get a few minor rubber burns.  We girls were smart and wore long sleeves.  Ha!)  I think my favorite obstacle was the crashed airplane.  The guys cherry bombed it down the slide and Amy and I jumped together right after.  What a rush!

So without further ado, a combination of silly iPhone and race official professional photos to document:    

^^Getting all geared up at the starting line.  Nice photo bomb, Bron!  Haha.^^
^^Impersonating a pair of teenage girls we saw spend a full ten minutes making faces at their phones on a selfie stick.  I think we look even better!^^
^^Short little Amy almost got stranded behind a giant tube.  But she used her insane climbing skillz and got herself up!^^
^^Bron showing off some leg.  Oooh, la-la!^^
^^Our participation medals and t-shirts.  The race was way more fun than it was something to actually be proud of accomplishing.  Haha.^^

After the race, we all agreed we'd jump back in and do it all over again if we could--or at least go play on our favorite obstacles!  We stopped at R.E.I. to make an exchange and played way too long with all their cool outdoor gear.  Then it was finally time for lunch!  We celebrated Amy's birthday with a giant meal PLUS dessert at Tucano's.  Ugh, I think we all rolled out.  A three mile run does not in any way justify how much we ate, but a birthday certainly does!  Thanks for having a birthday, Amy!  And thanks for inviting us along to party hard.  We feel so lucky to have a pair of friends like you guys.  It was a fabulous Saturday.

Also, a giant thank you to my mom who babysat and played with Jed and Levi.  They had a blast of a day at Grandma's house and can't wait to visit again.  What am I talking about?  I can't wait to visit again.  I love our late night talks, Mom.  Plus, summer is almost here.  The zoo and splash park, here we come!    
   
^^Trying on some toasty warm marshmallow coats at R.E.I.  You know, the ones that only cost $250 on the clearance rack.  Ha!^^

Spring Showers and A Little Update

5.06.2015

At this moment I want to express a giant heartfelt 'thank you'.  I have felt an overwhelming abundance of love these last couple of weeks.  I am actually quite surprised by the number of hugs, phone calls, texts, emails, and gifts that keep arriving at my door from the sweetest and most caring of friends and family.  It is truly humbling and it all means the world to me--to know that I am thought of and prayed for.  (Seriously, you guys have brought tears to my eyes!)  I have prayed for comfort and it has come through many earthly angels.  I hope that one day I will be able to return the favor in someone's time of need with the same amount of grace and love that has been showered upon me.  With all my heart, thank you.  Thank you, thank you.    

For those who have asked, it's true, I've had some hard moments.  Talking about my miscarriage can still make me cry.  And seeing pregnant women still makes me a little sad.  (But it's not all doom and gloom!  We've played in the sunshine and the little boys keep me laughing.)  The hard moments are partly physically hormonal--am I going crazy?!--and the other part is emotional.  Poor Bron has put up with more tears this month than he has in our entire marriage combined!  The good man just loves me and keeps on reminding me that it's okay; I need to cut myself some slack.  It doesn't really matter that the boys watched three hours of tv or that the toilets haven't been scrubbed in a month... because I'm just not quite myself right now.  But I wish I was!

I'm ready to put this all behind me, to make it a memory.  I've hit the ground running this week, quite literally.  I've begun exercising again and tackling all of life's responsibilities with renewed gusto--though I can feel my energy waning fast.  Unfortunately, my instincts tell me that it's not completely over yet.  My body is still recovering and my emotional wound is still healing.  Something will inevitably come up to rip that fresh scab off and make it begin bleeding anew.  Time.  More time.  A miscarriage is a bigger deal physically and emotionally than I ever imagined it could be.  It takes time to heal.  It's hard not to let fear and doubt creep in, but I'm keeping my chin up and holding on to hope with everything I've got!  Everything will be okay.  I'm doing okay.               

^^Eye candy.  It rained a little while back.  So I played with my camera and a borrowed lens.  It blows me away how captivating something as simple as tiny raindrops can be.  I could just stare at these pictures.  I think I totally need my very own macro lens now.^^

Happy 8th Anniversary to Us!

5.05.2015


There's something that Bron likes to remind me of often.  He says, "When we're good, everything else is good."  And it's the truth.  When our relationship is solid, we're happiest.  When we've put in the time and effort it takes to be each others' best friend, we can get through anything life throws our way, TOGETHER.  We have a handful of life experiences behind us and even more in front of us.  I'm so glad we're doing this life thing together as a team; it feels much more secure that way.  He's got my back and I have his.  I'm a lucky girl.  I honestly don't know what I'd do without him at my side.

Bron and I met ten years ago (TEN!!!) in March 2005.  Six months later, we started dating and we've been together ever since.  I can't recall the exact moment I knew that I loved him; I think it was a gradual feeling that deepened as our relationship grew.  But I can for sure say that I have loved him every moment: all 8 years, or 96 months, or 416 weeks, or 2,922 days, or 70,128 hours, or 4.2 million minutes, or 252.4 million seconds of our marriage together.  Here's to a million everything more!  (Hehe!)     

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